Centre for Paediatric Spiritual Care blog
Our regular blog will see posts from various members of our spiritual care team or a guest writer. This month, Ruth Radley, Children's Worker in BCH Chaplaincy team, writes about the role of culture in providing Chaplaincy and spiritual care.
I recently returned to South Sudan, where I had lived for almost 8 years, to teach a course to Student Teachers who were about to finish their diploma programme. The course was Child Rights and responsibilities, which led into child participation and protection, and I had developed it out of the work I and my South Sudanese team did in the communities around, indeed this was the third time the module was taught. Although this is not an interfaith work, it is work in a very different culture, and led to my understanding of culture, and it’s hold on us in a much deeper way, which I hope will enrich my work back here in the UK.
I came to realise the strength of some cultures around the world. Take for example, marriage. In the UK there are so many ways that marriage can occur, but in some countries, ‘this’ is the only way. It is easy for an outsider to wonder why someone can’t choose to do something different, but that is before we come to understand the strength of culture, and effects on those who may choose to go against it.
For example, to help a group of student teachers in South Sudan understand the difference between a ‘need’ (or right) and a ‘want’ (no mean feat when some tribal languages do not have different words!) they were asked to do an exercise writing on small pieces of paper all the things they felt children wanted or needed to survive, develop and reach their full potential. The group then together discussed each item and decided if it should go into the ‘need’ or ‘want’ pile.
A conversation was had over the item ‘clothes.’ The group decided that this was a need, the whole class agreed, so it was placed in the ‘needs’ pile. Suddenly, a clicking noise was heard from the back of the classroom, as a student tried to gain my attention with his observations. ‘But madam,’ Tanabor said, “Clothes are a want. I studied up to P5 (primary school year five) as naked as the day I was born, it did me no harm” The area Tanabor was from did indeed have nakedness as an acceptable part of the culture. As I stood before the class I silently reminded myself not to let my culture get in the way of this discussion. “OK”, I said, “in my culture, not only is it not acceptable to be naked, you would die very quickly in the winter if you were not wearing clothes, so for us they are a need.”
“That may be so, Madam”, said Tanabor triumphantly, “but for us it is hot. For us clothes are a want”
After much discussion we concluded that depending on the local culture clothes could be a need or a want, but that where they were a ‘want’ and not a ‘need’ caution should be exercised to ensure that there was no hurt or abuse.
Of course, the UK has laws which must be obeyed, as in any country, but as I continue to settle back into life in the UK – I am aware of so many people we work with who come from very different cultures, and who may be bemused by so many of the ways we do things in the UK, as well as those who struggle to understand things, or do things a different way, because the culture they were brought up in has had such a profound effect upon them. As I continue in my chaplaincy role, I hope that I will be able to maintain this awareness, back in the culture which was once so familiar, but now often feels a little alien after so long away, and help those who may struggle to understand.
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19.07.16 Lorraine Beddard, a Teenage and Young Adult Clinical Liaison Nurse, writes about supporting a young adult recovering from cancer.
27.06.16 Sally Nash, Researcher at the CPSC, writes about a conference where she and Paul Nash presented a paper.
15.06.16 Emma Roberts, Project Coordinator and Research Assistant at the Centre for Paediatric Spiritual Care, writes about the research background of our sibling support project.
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18.05.16 Christine Williams gives a grandmother's perspective on having a sick child in the family, and gives her insights for those caring for the family.
20.04.16 The opening of a new Peaceful Space at the hospital
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27.03.16 Sally Nash, Director of Research at the CPSC, writes about attending a rare diseases day at Birmingham Children's Hospital
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